Archive for April, 2011

The girl who dreams

Posted: April 28, 2011 in Life, Thoughts

Find a girl who dreams. She will definitely be the one who would carry an unread book, and heartwarming music along with her. She will smile on a crowded bus, as if all pain is minimum and you will realise she is the one. Lost in her own thoughts and in her own self, engrossed in some colorful and attractive piece of junk, busy making a story out of no where.

She is the one who would wait for you in the coffee bar, engrossed in some activity, gently sipping the coffee, and still waiting for you with a warm smile. She will not complain, because she was busy weaving her own bit of story. Buy her another cup of coffee. You’ll realise she is equally happy.

Find a girl who dreams and you’ll never run out of conversation. She will have so much to talk to, that you will always be prompted to smile back at her. A girl who dreams always has stories to tell. Ask her if she still likes Cinderella and Alice, you will be surprised to find she still wants to  be Cinderella or Alice. She gets excited seeing a reference to her favourite hero, she can stay awake with you all night just to tell you the story, enveloped with a lot of passion.

Understand the fact she has her own world, and her own set of beliefs, but still she knows the difference between reality and fantacy. You may not be her Edward Cullen, but let her know that you too understand the song of love. She is going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.

Never lie to her. She gets hurt everytime you do that. She will never understand why you needed to lie. Motivate her everytime you see her fail. Because a dreamer can never accept things coming to an end. Try to write a sequel for her, make her believe you are still the hero. Never get bogged down if she thinks you are the anti-hero, because she will be the one who would climb upto you and make up for the lost time. She will repent more than you can think, because she will never want her story to end.

If you find a dreamer in a girl, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her in your arms. She needs that hug. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.

Find a girl who dreams. Even after a crazy fight, you will still find her smile with same warmth and vigour. And the sight will make you  wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. Don’t make her stop dreaming. Even when you think its mindless. Don’t try to write a story of your own. Tell her that you too can be a part of her story, even if you donnot find sense.

Marry a girl who dreams. Beccause you will always find a new self in her. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable.  She will hum the love songs, and ballads, and you will enjoy growing old together.

Love a girl who dreams. Don’t chain her down, rather give her wings to fly. Don’t shatter her dreams, instead make it your own.

More so find a girl who writes her dreams… !!

Much love

‘r